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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Weiss, Brian L. (Brian Leslie)
Eliminating stress, finding inner peace / Brian L. Weiss.
p. cm.
ISBN 1-4019-0244-8 (Hardcover)
1. Stress (Psychology) 2. Stress management. I. Title.
BF575.S75W44 2003
155.9’042—dc21
2003004369
ISBN 13: 978-1-4019-0244-5
ISBN 10: 1-4019-0244-8
13 12 11 10 8 7 6 5
1st printing, September 2003
5th printing, August 2010
Printed in the United States of America
Contents
Chapter 1: The Nature of Stress
Chapter 2: Causes of Stress
Chapter 3: Signs and Symptoms of Stress
Chapter 4: Stress and Illness
Chapter 5: Posttraumatic Stress Disorder
Chapter 6: A Few Clinical Cases
Chapter 7: Stress and Worry
Chapter 8: Stress and Spirituality
Chapter 9: A Threefold Approach to Stress Reduction
Chapter 10: How to Use the CD
CD Transcript: Eliminating Stress, Finding Inner Peace
About the Author
Chapter One
THE NATURE OF STRESS
Stress seems to be inevitable and omnipresent. Wherever we look, potential sources of stress abound, ready to rob us of our joy and damage our health.
The complexity of modern life has increased our overall levels of stress and tension. Twenty-four-hour televison news programs as well as the Internet allow us to learn about tragedies and disasters within moments of their occurrence, no matter where in the world they happen. Advances in transportation and communication technology have allowed for much more mobility in our living and working environments. The extended family has broken down as industries relocate but travel time shortens. There is an illusion of geographical closeness, but parents and grandparents are not really so close or potentially helpful if they need to board an airplane in order to visit. Just a few decades ago, most extended families still lived in the same town and were available for assistance and support.
There are more single-parent families now, a stressful situation that is exacerbated by the gradual extinction of the extended family. The ominous word, multitasking, hints at the overload we face daily. Information technology is never asleep, as is manifested through cell phones, e-mail, instant messaging, beepers, and other electronic leashes. We cannot get away. There is no “downtime” anymore. Our support systems are eroding, and we are feeling overwhelmed.
Technological advances in warfare and weapons of mass destruction have also increased our level of discomfort. Some negative results of other newer forms of technology, such as nuclear waste, global warming, and environmental poisons, have likewise had a cumulative stress-increasing effect. As the world becomes more complex, we become more stressed. Our spiritual evolution and our ability to recover our healthy homeostasis and equilibrium have simply not progressed at the same rapid rate as these technological stressors.
One effect of these changes has been a shift in the nature and pattern of stress-inducing events. We are now exposed much more frequently to constant or chronic stress. When stressors are relatively acute but infrequent, our bodies have an opportunity to clear the stress hormones and return to more baseline or normal conditions. However, when stressors are as frequent and as pervasive as they seem to be in our modern world, our bodies do not have enough time to reverse the harmful physiological effects. We are constantly bathed in stress hormones, and we pay a huge physical and mental price.
For these reasons, learning to rapidly reduce stress levels, both mentally and physically, is vitally important to maintaining our health in an increasingly overwhelming world. The techniques and the CD in this book can help you accomplish just that.
Stress results when we react psychologically and physically to the potential for change in our environment. Our minds react with concern,
worry, or fear. Our bodies react by secreting stress chemicals and hormones.
The physiological stress circuit, which existed even in primitive humans as a mechanism to ensure the survival of our species, and which has been genetically refined over many thousands of years, was designed for short-term stressors. A danger is perceived, and the hypothalamus region of our brain responds by releasing CRH (corticotropin-releasing hormone), which activates the pituitary gland to secrete ACTH (adrenocorticotropin), a hormone that causes the adrenal glands to release three additional hormones: epinephrine (adrenaline), norepinephrine (noradrenaline), and cortisol (glucocorticoid).
Epinephrine and norepinephrine increase blood pressure and cardiac rate, divert blood from the gastrointestinal system to the muscles, and speed reaction time. Cortisol releases glucose (sugar) from physiological storage in order to provide immediate fuel to the body. Cortisol also acts to prevent inflammation at the site of potential wounds or injury. The entire circuit of chemical and hormone secretion is known as the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis.
A real or imagined threat activates the HPA axis, and we shift to energizing response mode. We are ready to fight or flee, depending on the nature of the danger. Our breathing accelerates, our heart pounds at a rapid rate, and our mind becomes both active and focused at the same time. Our muscles, receiving the increased blood supply and fuel, are ready for immediate action. Our physical strength and agility are enhanced.
In this current world, stress from relationships, financial problems, the evening news, our daily commute, or from our work seems to wax and wane but rarely ever cease. The HPA axis is activated and doesn’t really have a well-defined end point. The stress chemicals are chronically secreted. Often we cannot fight, nor can we flee. We feel trapped and impotent. Long-term activation of the HPA axis causes chronic harmful physical and psychological illnesses such as heart disease, ulcers, obesity, substance abuse, depression, immune system suppression, and a host of other medical maladies. Stress reduction not only improves the quality of our lives, it can literally save our lives.
Chapter Two
CAUSES OF STRESS
Many people are completely oblivious to, or only partially cognizant of, the levels of stress they may be shouldering every day. Many are not aware of the most common causes of stress—stressors that can affect us at any time. Stress, in general, can be defined as any activation of the HPA axis, which means almost any stimulus, such as fear or pain, that disturbs or interferes with the normal physiological equilibrium of the individual. Stress is our physiological and psychological response to the daily events in our lives. Smaller stressors of limited duration can be viewed as positive events because our bodies and minds become more alert, focused, energetic, and engaged.
Over brief periods of time, mild to moderate levels of stress can produce beneficial results. For example, since concentration is more focused, actors, musicians, and others find that their performances are often enhanced by this stress-induced effect. Students taking examinations can similarly benefit. In addition to activating the mind and improving concentration, stress hormones increase muscle function and speed reaction time. Athletes and others striving for heightened physical performance can greatly benefit from these psychophysiological changes.
After the mildly stressful event is over, we clear our bodies of the stress hormones and return to our normal state of equilibrium. However, if the stress is too severe or persists over an extended period of time, these beneficial results may be negated.
The following life-changing events are generally considered the most powerful stressors. The effects of these events are cumulative, so if you are subjected to several of these experiences in a relatively short time, you will probably be at a greater risk of developing stress-related symptoms.
• Death of a mate, family member, or close friend
• Suffering a significant injury, illness or accident
• Loss of a job, or severe work problems
• Loss of a significant relationship through divorce or breakup
• Unwanted pregnancy
• Legal problems, especially jail time and lawsuits
• Major financial problems, including being rejected for loans
• Being a victim of crime, violence, or abuse
• Loneliness or betrayal by a loved one
• Traumatic events, such as natural disasters
• Change of residence, job, or marital status
• Becoming a parent
• Problems with children
• Loss of insurance (especially health) or other benefits
• Balancing job and home responsibilities
• Frequent deadlines or unhealthy competition at work or at school
• Domestic disputes
• Issues with fertility
• Retirement
• Perceived failures, criticisms, or humiliation
Of course, there are many other stressors; these are merely some of the more common and potent ones.
Chapter Three
SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF STRESS
As I have noted, stress increases secretions of hormones and chemicals in the body that we normally need only in times of emergency. During chronic episodes of stress, heart rhythm is accelerated, blood pressure can increase to dangerous levels, and stomach acidity can erode the lining of our digestive tracts. We feel increasingly miserable and hopeless, and clinical depression can develop. Our sleep is disturbed and unrefreshing, and we feel more and more fatigued and sluggish. Our sexual drive is diminished, affecting our relationships even more. Our weight can balloon up or down, depending upon how our appetite for food is affected.
The economic costs are also considerable. Time lost from work due to stress-related illnesses causes catastrophic losses both to businesses and individuals. The costs to the health-care systems are also staggering. Medical tests, procedures, and even hospitalizations are incredibly expensive and time-consuming. They are also physically unpleasant and can lead to secondary side effects that can be dangerous.
The symptoms of chronic stress may be categorized in many ways. The following divides them into the major categories of psychological, physical, and behavioral.
Psychological Symptoms Include:
• Impaired concentration
• Forgetfulness
• Fears and anxieties
• Depression and other mood disturbances
• Irritability
• Worrying
• Feelings of impending doom
• Low self-esteem
• Being easily distracted
• Anger
• Guilt
• Suspicion
• Getting easily frustrated (low threshold of frustration)
• Loss of motivation; fear of failure
Physical Symptoms Include:
• Headaches
• Increased blood pressure, heart rate
• Sweating
• Tightness of the chest
• Difficulty breathing
• Hyperventilation
• Tremors
• Nervous tics
• Dryness of the mouth and throat
• Feelings of lethargy and fatigue
• Insomnia
• Diarrhea and stomach pains
• Decreased libido
• Obesity or weight loss
• Bruxism (teeth grinding)
• Backaches or neck pain
• Susceptibility to illness
• Palpitations
(heart pounding or skipped beats)
• Muscle tightness or tension
• Skin disorders
• Heartburn and acid stomach
• Osteoporosis and bone fractures
Behavioral Symptoms Include:
• Increased use, or resumption of, alcohol, drugs, or tobacco
• Excessive caffeine intake
• Impulsivity
• Aggres
sive behavior
• Overeating
• Relationship conflicts
• Decreased activity
• Avoidance of people or places; social isolation
• Reappearance or aggravation of phobias
• Withdrawal from responsibility
If you notice that these signs and symptoms are occurring more frequently or with more severity, you may be experiencing increased stress levels. The earlier that stress-reduction techniques are applied, the better you will feel. The negative effects of chronic stress can be mitigated. Your body and your mind can return to their normal state of function.
Chapter Four
STRESS AND ILLNESS
Many medical studies have linked chronic stress to numerous illnesses and problems. In fact, five of the leading causes of death in the United States are linked to stress: heart disease, cancer, lung ailments, cirrhosis of the liver, and suicide. Women are affected as much as men, often more so. Stress respects no particular sex, race, religion, or nationality.
It is well known that stress can impair the functioning of the body’s immune system. When immune-system suppression occurs, the body becomes much more vulnerable to infections, both viral and bacterial, as well as to other opportunistic pathogens, such as parasites.
The immune system also plays a major role in impeding many types of cancer. With an impairment or compromise to our immunological defense mechanisms, the ability to ward off or fight cancer cells is correspondingly suppressed, and this can lead to catastrophic consequences. We become more vulnerable to cancer and its spread, and to other chronic medical conditions that interact with our immune system.
It is not just a myth that people who are in love get sick less often. Those in this state tend to be happier and more optimistic. They are not as bothered by the usual stressors in our environments and in our lives. In their transcendent zone of love, they rise above mundane conflicts. When someone is in love, their immune system functions at an optimal level, providing them protection from invading germs, cancer cells, or other attacks on their health.
Stress seems to increase levels of LDL cholesterol, the so-called bad cholesterol linked to increased risks of coronary artery disease. Other studies have demonstrated that sudden mental stress causes the inner layer of blood vessels to constrict, thereby increasing the risk of heart attack or stroke.