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  FrogsintoPrinces(Bandler/Grinder),142

  Frustration,71–72

  Fryer,Zander,159,160,167

  Fulfillment,gold,2

  Game

  failure,component,75

  returning,71

  winning/losing,41–43

  Gandolfini,James(actingapproach),130,184–185

  Garofalo,Janeane,21

  GelfondCathySandrich,172–175

  Generosity,130

  GiantSteps(Abdul-Jabbar),143

  Gillingham,Kim,111,140,160–161,167

  Glamour,overestimation,179

  Goal

  achievement/knowledge,184–187

  grasping,problem,79

  GoldenRule,usage,170–171

  Goliath, 97,110,114,121

  Goodman,Elissa,127

  Goodness,169

  benefits,171–176

  power,170–171

  Gordon,Jon,147,152

  Gratitude

  display,150

  system,creation,149–152

  Graves,Alex,22

  Greco,Loretta,2

  Grinder,John,142

  Grounding,exercise,137–139

  Grupe,Rob,74–75

  Gut,trust,36–39

  “GuyintheGlass,The”(Wimbrow),16

  Hagen,Uta,35

  Harbinger,Jordan,127

  Harris,Ed,67

  Hawke,Ethan,162–166

  Headspace,135

  Help/assistance,search,125–129,140–145

  Helplessness,70

  Hendricks,Gay,166

  Hill(metaphor),climbing,20–23

  Hitshows,occurrence,34–36

  Hodge,Aldis,195

  Hollis,Sue,145

  HotPursuit, 83,130,175,192

  Howard,Ron,67

  HugeinFrance(Netflixshow),45–46,48,84,99,108

  Hughes,John,26

  Humility,124–125

  Hurley,John,20,22,66

  mantras,69

  teachings,68

  Imagery,reframing/importance,78–82

  Imperfections,51

  Informational,transformational(contrast),44

  Innerself,correspondence,160

  Instinct,25

  learning,38

  trust,36–39

  Intelligence,27–28

  Intentionalblindness,151

  Internalexperience,94

  Introversion,27–28

  Jabaley,Charlie,84,103,149–150

  Jackman,Hugh,105

  Jam,Jimmy,13

  Jay-Z,53

  Jeter,Derek,155

  Joel,Billy,100

  music,usage/need,8–11

  Jordan,Michael,43

  Jung,Carl,159,161

  Kaminski,Gus,61–62,150

  Kane,Steven,125

  Kaufman,Boris,115

  Kazan,Elia,38

  KeepItSimple,Stupid(KISS),2

  Keuilian,Bedros,14,123,166

  Knickerbocker,Terry,15,108

  Kogan,Nataly,149

  Lambert,Jack,143

  Lazar,Sara,141

  Leaders

  differences,131

  problems,128

  Leadership,117,127–128

  communicationstyle,121

  humility,124–125

  potential,awareness,125

  relationships,presence,118

  self-leadership,125

  Lee,Bruce,90

  Levine,Alison,43,55–56

  Life

  aspect,dissection,156–167

  change,73–74

  events,framing/interpretation(impact),80

  experiences,framingprocess(importance),77–78

  faith,requirement,150–151

  glamour,overestimation,179

  impact,70–72

  perspective,56

  quality,performance(correlation),26

  Lindley,Siri,53,69

  Listening,importance,73

  LivebyNight, 112

  Lively,Blake,105,106

  Liveperformance,spontaneity(addiction),28–29

  Livetheater,disaster(potential),31

  Livingspace,inspiration,182–184

  LongDay'sJourneyintoNight(O'Neill),115

  Long,Matt,71,91–93

  LongRun,The(Long),71,92

  Losing/winning,153–154

  scorecard,usage(avoidance),155–157

  Luck,178,194

  Lumet,Sidney,114–115,121

  Maguire,Jerry, 126–127

  MakingMovies(Lumet),114,121

  Mamet,David,29,109

  Medicine,usage,99–101

  Meditation,133

  acceptance,141

  groundingexercise,137–139

  integration,143

  practices,beauty/curse,145

  resistance,135

  surrender,contrast,89–90

  Mentalgame,usage,41–43

  Mentors,study,43–44

  Messina,Chris,42,109,112,123,126,155–156

  Milano,Alyssa,82,149

  Mindset,impact,16

  Misiano,Christopher,186

  Mistresses, 82–83

  Momentum,building,155

  “MorethanHalfofActorsAreUnderPovertyLine”(Vincent),66

  Morski,LynnMarie,90–91

  Moving,self-questioning,2–8

  MysteryofEdwinDrood,180

  auditionexperience,8–11

  Nature,nurture(contrast),14–17

  Navarro,José,115

  NorthEnd,The, 155

  O'Brien,Mark,179

  Oldman,Gary,107,155

  Olsen,EricChristian,25

  O'Neill,Eugene,115

  OntheEdge(Levine),43,55

  OntheWaterfront, 38

  Oppenheim,Geri,114

  Opportunity,pursuit(continuation),175

  Pain,impact,91

  Panicattacks,5,94

  Parents,impact,189–190

  Participation,requirement,4

  Paskowtiz,Nina,114

  Passion

  display,187

  importance,86

  Peacekeeping,price,3

  Performance,25

  audienceintimacy,intimidation,30

  commonality,28

  life,quality(correlation),26

  liveperformance,spontaneity(addiction),28–29

  magic,27

  problems,33–36,140

  Performers

  exposure,desire,10–11

  similarities,26–30

  Permanentdefeat,admission,90–91

  Perry,Jeff,172

  Perry,Matthew,19

  Perseverance,65,71

  usage,66–69

  Podcast,initiation,84–87

  Polk,Andrew,31,35

  Polo,Teri,21

  Ponzio,Melissa,23,169

  PooPourri(Batiz),93

  Positivechange,capability,105

  Powerstructure,181–182

  Preparation,importance,21,47

  Pressfield,Stephen,2

  Professionalism,57–59

  Professionals,study,43–44

  Publicity,understanding,192–193

  Purpose,importance,86

  Rarefiedair,112–116

  Reading

  lines,importance,73

  opportunity,172

  Reality,facade(contrast),189

  Redcarpet

  attention-seekingstereotype,respect(absence),27

  facade,192–194

  Redman,Jason,6,92,93

  Reframing,77

  Regret,feeling,96

  Rehabilitation,meaning,96

  Rehearsal,discipline,42

  Rejections,change,85–86

  Relatio
nships

  change,134–136

  presence,118

  Relaxation,133

  integration,143

  surrender,contrast,89–90

  Rewards,motivation,179

  Reynolds,Ryan,105

  Rhimes,Shonda,85,129

  Risk,53

  Robbins,Blake,156

  Robbins,Tony,32,53

  Rockwell,Sam,108–109

  Rolemodels,study,43–44

  Roles,transformation

  completion,111–112

  process,107–111

  Roles,variety,110

  Sadness,71–72

  Saint,EvaMarie,38

  Saladino,Don,105–107,155

  Scandal,84–85,113–114,129,191

  Schiff,Richard,7–8

  Schreiber,Liev,105

  Schreiber,Terry,31,136–137,140

  Scorecard

  usage,absence,155–157

  Scorecard,keeping,154–155

  Secrets,carrying,3

  Self-belief,156–157

  growth,155

  path,148–149

  Self-criticism,144–145

  impact,11

  Self-development,127

  Self-forgiveness,110–111

  Self-judgment,impact,11

  Self-knowledge,142–143

  Self-leadership,125

  Self-motivation,4

  Self-sabotage,Hollywoodnightmare,161–167

  Self-scorecard,keeping,154–155

  Service

  importance,86

  value,118–123

  Shahi,Sarah,77,163

  ShawshankRedemption,The(Darabont),95–96,152

  Sheen,Martin,186

  Sheridan,Taylor,113

  Showbusiness

  “feastorfamine,”162

  “hurryupandwait,”162

  importance/enjoyment,82–84

  Shows,hits(presence),34–36

  Simon,Carly(stagefright),32

  Sims,Steve,68

  Singularity,177

  Skydiving(free-falling),experience,60–63

  Smits,Jimmy,18,20,21,129–130

  Solutions,discovery,140–145

  Sopranos,The, 110,162,191

  actingrun,18

  attention,59

  audition,56,58,152

  career,changes,62,75

  culturalimportance,56

  experience,22

  Gandolfini,actingapproach,130,184–185

  role,callbacks,75

  success,change,143

  work,58–59

  Sorkin,Aaron,19,20

  Speed,purchase,43–45

  Speed-the-Plow(Mamet),29–30,34–36

  performance,problems(example),35–36

  preparation,fundamentals,30–31

  Spencer,John,186–187

  Sportsstories,actingcareer(parallels),72

  Springsteen,Bruce(concertlengths),32

  Srivatsaa,Sharran,44,120

  Stagedirections,importance,173

  Stardom,ego(relationship),129–131

  Stars,generosity,130

  Straight-Astudent,ratingexcess,136–140

  Streep,Meryl,27,43

  Street,AmandaLovejoy,160,161,167

  Subconscious,159,166

  summoning,160–161

  Success

  externalvalidation,144

  facade,192–194

  failure,relationship,59–60

  hype,disbelief,190–192

  imminence,72–76

  reasons,differentiation,80

  simplicity,140–145

  Surrender,89,98

  acknowledgment,92

  relaxation/meditation,contrast,89–90

  weakness/defeat,association,90

  System,creation/usage,49–52

  Talent

  impact,22

  payoff,194–196

  payscale,correlation,194–195

  presence,112–116

  workethic/values,connection,23

  Talkthetalk,45–49

  Tarantino,Quentin,183

  Taylor,Chip,37

  TB12method,134

  TelesProperties,44,120

  Thornton,BillyBob,97

  ThreeBillboardsinEbbing,Missouri,108

  Thurman,Uma,164–165

  TierOneOperators,training,17–18

  Time,energy(balance),178

  Todd,Jennifer,123

  Torres,Toni,80

  Training,41

  continuation,106

  power,49

  Transformation,103. SeeRoles

  example,113–114

  impact,104–107

  initiation,116

  Trilling,Lawrence,121–122

  Truth,moment,10

  Unemployment

  impact,97

  opportunities,84–87

  UnleashthePowerWithin(Robbins),32,53

  Values,talent(connection),23

  Vergara,Sofia,174–175,192–194

  Vice, 108

  Vincent,Alice,66

  Vincent,Frank,57

  Walken,Georgianne,58–59

  Walker,Acacia,119

  Walkthewalk,45–49

  Walls,punching(avoidance),97–99

  WarofArt,The(Pressfield),2

  Washington,Kerry,85,129

  Weakness,surrender(association),90

  Wells,John,20

  WestWing,The(experience/fear),18–22,186

  Whitaker,Rob,127–128,141,153–154

  Whitford,Bradley,21

  Who'stheBoss?, 149

  Wilkerson,Carrie,196

  Willful,definition,81

  Willfuldenial,80–83,151

  Wimbrow,Dale,16

  WindRiver, 110,113

  Winfrey,Oprah,14,149

  Winkler,Henry,133

  Wins. SeeLosing/winning

  scorecard,usage(avoidance),155–157

  usage,154–155

  Witherspoon,Reese,130,174–175,192–194

  Wooden,John,156

  Work

  powerstructure,181–182

  recurrence,171

  Workethic,13–14,27

  detail/consistency,17

  increase,16

  learning/training,15

  talent,connection,23

  usage,21

  Workplace,leaders(problems),128

  World,belief,148–149

  Writing,origin,6

  Yalof,Schwartz,Suze,142

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