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by Bill Eddy


  Kelli Daniels as the publicist in making this another widely read book on this

  difficult topic of high- conflict personalities.

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  INDE X

  NUMBERS AND DATES

  adversarial behavior, 139–140

  4-way voter split, 163–164

  adversarial leadership, 46–47

  cultural leadership, 30–32

  aggressive behavior, 10, 20, 140, 157

  diagram, 29, 175–176

  Ailes, Roger, 45–46, 101–102, 151

  Dropouts, 28–30

  all- or- nothing thinking, 142–143, 174

  emotional differences, 34–35

  American Psychiatric Association, 11

  emotions, contagiousness, 32–34

  amygdala, 33–34

  fear factor, 35–36

  anti- Semitism, 6, 63, 65

  Loyalists, 27

  ASPD (antisocial personality disorder)

  Moderates, 28–29

  diagram, 16

  Resisters, 28–30

  explained, 11, 13–14

  1920s and 1930s, Jewish population in

  seductiveness, 20–21

  Germany, 61

  traits, 141

  1929, Great Depression, 64–65

  assertive approach, 158–159

  1949, FCC (Federal Communications

  attention, giving, 129–133

  Commission), 44

  audience, knowing, 129, 134–135

  1960-1979, African ethnic groups, 5

  authoritarian streak, America, 95

  1964, Civil Rights Act, 101

  “authoritarianization, ” 84

  1966-1975, Cultural Revolution,

  74–75

  B

  1980s, break up of Soviet Union, 5

  Beer Hall Putsch, 66

  1989, destruction of Berlin Wall, 42

  behavior

  1990s

  adapting, 9

  culture of blame, 42

  extremity, 143

  Yugoslav Wars, 5–6

  noticing, 145

  1996, rise of cable news channels, 44

  patterns, 12

  2002, popularity, 45

  being everywhere, 159–160

  2016 presidential election, 107–112,

  Berlin Wall, 42, 83

  115, 133

  Berlusconi, Silvio

  early years, 91

  A

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 92

  Abramson, Jill, 45

  as fantasy hero, 179

  ACA (Affordable Care Act), 106

  HCP (high- conflict personality), 92

  Access Hollywood tape, 152

  heroes and villains, 92–93

  adapting behavior, 9

  high- emotion media, 93–94

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  196 Index

  Berlusconi, Silvio (continued)

  crises, characterization, 51–52, 57. See

  historical perspective, 91

  also Fantasy Crisis Triad

  villains and heroes, 92–93

  crisis emotions, 174

  BIFF (brief, informative, friendly, firm)

  crowds, recognizing energy of, 161–162

  responses, 133, 153–156

  C- SPAN, 43

  blaming words, noticing, 142. See also

  cultural environment, 9

  culture of blame; Targets of Blame;

  cultural leadership, 30–32, 45–46

  words

  Cultural Revolution, 5, 74–75

  Bolshevik Party, 32, 67

  culture of blame, 42–43. See also

  Boxell, Levi, 114

  blaming words; Targets of Blame

  brain areas

  amygdala, 33–34

  D

  fear factor, 35–36

  “death panels, ” 151

  left vs. right, 38

  democracy, threats to, 13

  mirror neurons, 33–34

  Democrats vs. Republicans, 34–35

  Breitbart, 114

  demonic personality, 4

  Brodie, Fawn, 100

  Depression. See Great Depression

  dictatorship, 65

  C

  domineering behavior, 10, 25

  cable news channels, rise of, 44. See

  Double Negatives, Trump, Donald,

  also fake news; high- emotion media;

  109–110

  media; negative news

  Dropouts

  Canadian NAFTA “crisis, ” 106–107

  4-way voter split, 29

  charm and persuasion, 8–9

  characteristics, 28–29

  Chavez, Hugo, 88–90

  empathy, strength, power, 133–134

  childhood experiences, 9

  treating as opponents, 124

  children, personality differences, 35

  Trump, Donald, 111–112

  China, Fantasy Crisis Triad, 178. See

  DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical

  also Mao Zedong

  Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth

  Christie, Chris, 149

  Edition). See also mental illness

  Civil Rights Act, 1964, 101

  narcissism vs. sociopathology, 14

  Clinton, Bill, 45

  NPD (narcissistic personality

  Clinton, Hillary, 80, 109–111, 113,

  disorder), 12–13

  119–120, 132

  personality disorders, 11

  CNN, 45

  Duterte, Rodrigo

  cognitive capacity, reduction, 41

  early years, 85

  Cohn, Gary, 106

  false news, 41

  collaboration (teamwork), 47

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 86

  Communist Party, China, 72

  HCP (high- conflict personality), 86

  “Communist takeover.” See McCarthy,

  heroes and villains, 86–87

  Joseph

  high- emotion media, 87–88

  community, dividing, 23–24

  historical perspective, 85

  compromising vs. fighting, 129–130, 136

  villains and heroes, 86–87

  conservatives vs. liberals, 34–35

  Constitution, United States, 46

  E

  Coughlin, Charles, 95

  electing HCPs, preventing, 129

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  Index 197

  elections, screening HCPs, 140–141

  Fantasy Crisis Triad. See also crises;

  “Eleventh Commandment, ” 132

  three key questions

  emotional attacks, refraining from,

  Berlusconi, Silvio, 92

  150–152

  BIFF (brief, informative, friendly,

  emotional attention, providing, 127

  firm) responses, 153–156

  emotional communication, 32–34

  China, 178

  emotional differences, 34–36

  Duterte, Rodrigo, 86

  emotional messaging, 128

  everything is crisis, 50–52

  emotional relationships, 32–34

  Germany, 178

  emotional repetition in isolation, 45,

  Hitler, Adolf, 63–64

  114, 128, 136, 160

  Hungary, 179

  emotional warfare

  informative approach, 153–156

  attacking Targets of Blame, 22–23

  Italy, 179

  defined, 19

  Maduro, Nicolas, 89

  dividing community, 23–24

  McCarthy, Joseph, 97

  dominating everyone, 25

  mistake of believing in, 118–119

  pattern, 20–25

  Nixon, Richard, 100

  seducing Negative Advocates,

&nb
sp; nuances, 54–55

  20–22

  Orban, Viktor, 83

  emotions

  overview, 49–50

  “catching, ” 33

  Putin, Vladimir, 79

  intensity and lack of

  responses to human problems,

  management, 143

  53–54

  self- monitoring, 144–145

  Russia, 178

  empathy

  Stalin, Josef, 69–70

  giving, 129–133

  stop thinking, 50

  lacking, 174

  Targets of Blame, 55–56

  enemies

  Trump, Donald, 104, 106–107,

  Dropouts as, 123–124

  112–113

  Loyalists as, 124

  United States, 179–180

  moderate opponents as, 122–123

  villains and heroes, 52–53

  Resisters as, 123

  Venezuela, 179

  seeking, 42–43

  Zedong, Mao, 73–74

  energy, strength, and power, 130, 136

  fantasy heroes. See heroes and villains

  Ergoğan, Recep Tayyip, 121

  fantasy villains. See villains and heroes

  FCC (Federal Communications

  F

  Commission), 44

  Facebook, impact on presidency, 40–41

  fear factor, 35–36, 42

  factual repetition, 160

  Fidesz party, 82–83

  fairness doctrine, end of, 44

  fighting vs. compromising, 129–130, 136

  fake news. See also cable news channels; Filipino politics. See Duterte, Rodrigo

  high- emotion media; media;

  Fox News, 44–45, 113–114

  negative news

  Fromm, Erich, 14–15

  analyzing, 164–166

  origin, 163

  G

  vs. truth, 40–41

  genetic tendencies, 9

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  198 Index

  Gentzkow, Matthew, 114

  cultural leadership, 45–46

  German Communist Party, 31

  Duterte, Rodrigo, 86–87

  Gingrich, Newt, 43–44, 113

  fantasizing, 45–47, 50–55, 57,

  Great Depression, 64–65, 95

  150–153, 174

  Great Leap Forward, 5, 74

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 50–51, 54–55

  Hitler, Adolf, 64–66

  H

  Mao Zedong, 74–75

  HCP (high- conflict personality)

  Maduro, Nicolas, 89–90

  Berlusconi, Silvio, 92

  McCarthy, Joseph, 97–98

  Trump, Donald, 103–104

  mistake of believing in, 119–120

  HCP attacks, ignoring, 158

  Nixon, Richard, 101

  HCP politicians, stopping, 125–126

  Orban, Viktor, 83–84

  HCP Theory, 10

  political leadership, 47

  HCP Wannabe Kings. See Wannabe

  Putin, Vladimir, 79–80

  Kings

  responding to, 150–153

  HCPs (high- conflict personalities). See

  Stalin, Josef, 70

  also Wannabe Kings

  three key questions, 57

  behaviors, 3, 7–9, 169–171

  Trump, Donald, 105–106

  capabilities, 125–126

  high- conflict politician scorecard,

  “controlling, ” 121–122

  173–174

  diagram, 16

  high- emotion media. See also cable

  early warning signs, 141

  news channels; fake news; media;

  emotional warfare, 20

  negative news

  enduring pattern, 140

  adversarial leadership, 46–47

  fundamental behavior, 139–140

  attraction, 10

  jamming Radar, 145–146

  Berlusconi, Silvio, 93–94

  key traits, 141

  competition, 39

  lack of self- understanding, 131

  cultural leadership, 45–46

  patterns, 142–146

  daily drama, 39

  in politics, 10–11

  dramatic aspect, 39

  predictable behaviors, 169–171

  Duterte, Rodrigo, 87–88

  preventing election, 129

  face and voice news, 37–38

  reminders, 146–147

  future and past, 41–42

  scorecard, 174

  HCPs (high- conflict

  screening, 140–141

  personalities), 39

  speaking about, 131

  Hitler, Adolf, 66

  splitting pattern, 23

  impaired ability to think, 41

  spotting patterns, 142–146

  Maduro, Nicolas, 90–91

  “victimization” and “defense, ” 121

  McCarthy, Joseph, 98–99

  WEB Method, 142–145

  Nixon, Richard, 101–102

  Heimans, Jeremy, 151

  Orban, Viktor, 84–85

  heroes and villains

  personal communication, 40

  avoiding emotional attacks, 150–152

  political Culture of Blame, 42–43

  avoiding emotional defense,

  and politics, 43–45

  152–153

  Putin, Vladimir, 81

  Berlusconi, Silvio, 92–93

  Stalin, Josef, 70–71

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  Index 199

  Trump, Donald, 113–115

  K

  viral aspect, 40–41

  Kaiser Wilhelm II, 64

  Zedong, Mao, 75

  Kerry, John, 158

  Hindenburg, 63–64, 66

  key questions, 6–7, 161. See also

  Hitler, Adolf

  Fantasy Crisis Triad

  ability to stop thinking, 50

  KGB, 78

  anti- Semitism, 6

  kulaks, 32, 34, 70

  cultural leadership, 31

  demonic personality, 4

  L

  early years, 62–63

  leadership. See adversarial leadership;

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 63–64

  cultural leadership

  as fantasy hero, 178

  “Leftists” vs. “Rightists, ” 24

  HCP (high- conflict personality), 63

  Lenin, Vladimir, 24, 67–68. See also

  high- emotion media, 66

  Russia

  historical perspective, 61

  liberals vs. conservatives, 34–35

  on radio, 40

  Little Red Book, 75

  seductive promises, 22

  Long, Huey, 95

  splitting pattern, 24

  The Loudest Voice in the Room, 44

  villains and heroes, 64–66

  Loyalists

  warning signs, 118

  described, 27–28

  hope, reasons for, 13

  empathy, strength, power, 131

  human problems, responses, 53–54

  jamming Radar, 145–146

  humanity, threats to, 13

  relative numbers, 128

  Hungary

  treating as enemies, 124

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 179

  Trump, Donald, 107–108

  Orban, Viktor, 82–85

  M

  I

  Maduro, Nicolas

  “I alone can fix it,” 50, 55

  early years, 88

  idealism, promising, 21–22

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 89

  Identity Crisis research, 109

  as fantasy hero, 179

  immunity, maintaining, 167–168

  HCP (high- contrast

  Independent voters, 110

  personality),
89

  International Criminal Tribunal, 6

  heroes and villains, 89–90

  issues, knowing reality of, 129,

  high- emotion media, 90–91

  135–136

  historical perspective, 88

  Italy

  villains and heroes, 89–90

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 179

  Magna Carta, 46

  Berlusconi, Silvio, 91–94

  malignant narcissism, 14–16

  Mao Zedong

  J

  early years, 71

  Jewish population in Germany, 1920s

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 73–74, 178

  and 1930s, 61

  as fantasy hero, 178

  Johnson, Lyndon, 102

  Great Leap Forward, 5

  Jones, Jim, 96

  HCP (high- conflict personality),

  juries, confusing and inflaming, 20–21

  72–73

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  200 Index

  Mao Zedong (continued)

  Mitchell, Brian David, 15

  heroes and villains, 74–75

  Moderates

  high- emotion media, 75

  described, 28–29

  historical perspective, 71

  empathy, strength, power, 133

  vs. Josef Stalin, 73–74

  Trump, Donald, 108–109

  villains and heroes, 74–75

  Mowrer, Edgar, 50

  warning signs, 118

  MSNBC, 45

  Marcos, Ferdinand, 85

  Mussolini, Benito, 91

  McCain, John, 134

  McCarthy, Joseph

  N

  early years, 96

  NAFTA (North American Free Trade

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 97

  Agreement), 106–107

  as fantasy hero, 179

  Nazi, description, 6

  HCP (high- conflict personality),

  Negative Advocates

  96–97

  bonding with, 22–23

  heroes and villains, 97–98

  seducing, 20–22, 139–140

  high- emotion media, 96, 98–99

  negative emotions, 144

  on TV, 40

  negative news. See also cable news

  villains and heroes, 97–98

  channels; fake news; high- emotion

  McFaul, Michael, 79–80

  media; media

  McGovern, George, 96

  consuming, 42

  media. See also cable news channels;

  New York Times’ focus on, 46

  fake news; high- emotion media;

  Nemtsov, Boris, 81

  negative news

  The New York Times, 46

  and politics, 43–45

  news. See high- emotion media

  rational vs. emotional, 38

  Nicholas II, 66–67

  Medvedev, Dmitri, 80

  Nixon, Richard

  Mein Kampf, 63, 65

  early years, 99

  mental illness, 8. See also DSM-5

  Fantasy Crisis Triad, 100

  (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of

  as fantasy hero, 180

  Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition)

  HCP (high- conflict personality),

 

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