Circle of Three
To maximize everyone’s pleasure, lay in a tight circle while going down on each other. To do this, you each have to lay on your side, mouth to cock or mouth to pussy, and make a chain of licking and touching. Oh lord, it’s great.
This circle is in the same family as the daisy chain. Each of you lays on your side with your head in the direction of the next person’s crotch. You make a tight circle and this way all three of you are being orally stimulated, unlike the daisy chain where the last person isn’t getting any lick time at all.
Keep the teamwork going. Never forget that you are partners in this.
Give your guy the great treat of having two mouths on his cock. Sit him on the couch while both of you squat in front of him and work his cock over by licking each side of it. Or be dominant and gather her hair and put her mouth down on it while you play with her pussy as you are up against her with your breasts flat against her back.
Watch what’s going on. Keep your eyes on your man, let him play with her tits while you finger her pussy and she deep-throats him. And if you feel your own pussy needs some tongue attention, then get up on the couch and straddle his face while he continues to get his cock sucked and get off that way. It’s like a three-way 69, except you’re getting all the pleasure without doing any of the work.
When you feel like enjoying all of her on top of you, lay down on the couch or floor and pull her directly on top of you. Kissing and touching and licking each other, your man can go behind her and the three of you can get into a rocking motion that way. Then scoot up so she can be on all fours licking your pussy while he continues to penetrate her from behind, never stopping the motion between the three of you. Let them know when you’re close to coming, and best-case scenario you can all come together, which I don’t have to tell you is utterly intense and amazing.
Screwing your man while facing the girl and playing with her is easy. Lay your man down with her straddling his face while you straddle his cock. While you’re pumping up and down you can play with each other’s clits—this is especially hot because she can actually stroke his cock and play with your clit at the same time. You can kiss and suck each other’s nipples if you stay in a sitting or cowgirl-type position.
When you want to suck your man’s cock while having him enjoy the sight of a woman orally pleasuring you, lay down and have him straddle your face, facing her, while she licks away and works a finger or two inside you. He’ll go nuts with the combination of getting your great blowjob and watching another woman getting you off. Much of the enjoyment of these positions for the man is watching you getting pleasure in ways you never have before.
Now, it’s not easy being the man in this situation. For him, pleasure may be a one-shot deal. But once he comes, the party doesn’t have to stop, and he still can be part of the fun. While he waits to get hard again, you can both enjoy your woman. Lay her down and take turns sucking her tits and fingering her, or you can lay down and have them both work on you in the same way.
Spoil each other completely. Even if his cock isn’t hard for now, he will still enjoy fingering, licking, and sucking both of you, and watching you both climax. No doubt, he’ll start getting hard again in no time. Meanwhile, the two of you can enjoy ravishing this lady and watching her get off from both of you and your sexual expertise. Keep the teamwork going; you will bond over the fact that you made another woman explosively come beyond belief. Never forget that you are partners in this.
True Story: Jeb and Maria’s First Time
Jeb is a modern hippie with shaggy hair and mutton chops, a musician who you’d never guess was raised in an affluent community in Connecticut. He’s left that far behind, now living in Harlem with a few roommates, working temp jobs, and playing his heart out in every café and bar that will have him. Jeb was lucky enough to meet Maria, a sweet Latina who is as dark as he is fair, as traditional as he is out there. Jeb was very much a single, carefree guy running around the city with a guitar slung over his shoulder, but when he met Maria at an open mike in the Lower East Side, he was a goner.
“I could tell she was a girl who wouldn’t tolerate me running around with other girls, and I wouldn’t hurt her for anything,” says Jeb, adjusting his glasses. “But I gotta say, I love women, and I made no secret of that. Funny thing is, I had the feeling that Maria loved women too.”
Jeb encouraged her bisexual curiosities with dirty talk and harmless jokes. “When I saw a hot chick check out Maria’s outfit, because she’s always decked out in something really sexy and cool, I’d whisper to her, ‘Ummmm she wants to lick your pussy baby!’ “ And Jeb admits his senorita would respond with, “Shut up, perv. I’m not a lesbo.” But all good things do come to a good boyfriend who is willing to wait patiently.
One night, after a gig with his band, Jeb and Maria hung out with a cousin of one of the people who came to see them play. Lori was visiting from out of town and staying at her cousin’s place in the Upper West Side, coincidentally where everyone decided to continue the party.
With plenty of booze and grass around, plus a killer sound system, the party was in full effect, and Jeb, who admits he’s not the best dancer in the world, enjoyed watching Maria and Lori get down for an hour straight to some funky beats. “Lori was built like Maria, short and kinda thick, but in good shape, with a small waist. They could’ve passed for cousins themselves. It was just hot watching them dance. I was pretty happy with just that because I have an active imagination anyway. I had a big boner just checking them out, enjoying themselves, letting loose. It was a beautiful thing.”
Maria finally stopped to get a drink and recharge her batteries. She took Jeb’s arm and led him to the kitchen to get a drink of water, and Lori followed. Lori told them they should check out the incredible view of the city from her bedroom and cool off. “I swear, by the time the door of that bedroom closed, I knew what was gonna happen,” says Jeb. “When we were in the kitchen, I felt some sexual energy from Lori. She had these really sexy green eyes, and she looked right at me. Something was going to happen.”
The view of the city was breathtaking. it overlooked the river and the skyline, but that was nothing compared to the sight Jeb was treated to of Lori carefully leaning into Maria for what became a long, open-mouthed kiss. Jeb did nothing for awhile, waiting to see whether Maria was going to shove her off and yell, but this did not happen. “I was elated, but careful. I went over very slowly and just kinda started rubbing both their necks while they were kissing.
Jeb had never had a ménage à trois himself, although it was something he had been burning to do. “I didn’t know what the etiquette was, but I knew if I touched one I would have to touch the other, so I did that and it kinda spun around in a circle—we were mirroring each other’s actions, and it evolved to us getting naked.”
Maria wasn’t exactly cool as a cucumber, though. More than once, she asked Jeb to check that the door was absolutely locked, worried someone would walk in. Otherwise, Jeb says, it progressed smoothly.
“The best was when they were both on top on me and I had four tits in my face and hands—and they both had huge tits, so it was amazing. I wasn’t sitting still for a second. I jerked off enough to this kind of porno, and I was going to play and play.” For Jeb, it was sensory overload; he had never been more excited or turned on, and he describes it as a movie montage of a series of dark, dreamy pictures.
“But Maria was my first concern, of course. I gave everything to her first because she’s my girlfriend and I didn’t want her to feel one second of neglect. I fucked her, I didn’t fuck Lori. But when I was fucking Maria, oh man, Lori was right behind me moving with me like we were both making love to her, and that was just beautiful. I remember closing my eyes and not believing how good this felt. This was so intense, this whole body transference.”
On it went until light streamed in the room and the three collapsed and got under the covers. But when Jeb woke up, he was with only one woman, his girl-friend. It
was late in the afternoon, and Lori had left the apartment to go on with her New York City vacation.
“I was scared, I admit it. When Maria woke up, I hugged her and kissed her all over her face. She was cool—it was cool that Lori had left definitely.” As they got dressed, Maria too marveled at what had happened in the wee hours of the night, and she also made it clear that this would probably never happen again, ever.
“She kept saying this would not be part of our normal sex lives and that things got very crazy, really wild, and it wasn’t her usual thing. That’s fine by me. I mean it happened to me! I had a three-way with my hot girlfriend and another hot girl. I mean come on, I’m going to be grateful forever!”
This could be the beginning of your own sexual awakening. You don’t have to question yourself or your own sexuality.
Think About It
Whether this is going to be a one-time thing or one of those special experiences you do from time to time as part of your sexual repertoire, always remember that your boyfriend does love you and only enjoys this as something different to do, just an extra kick of pleasure. If you aren’t going to enjoy it to its fullest capacity, chances are he won’t want to do it either. He doesn’t want to jeopardize your relationship any more than you do, so don’t ever feel pressured to engage in it unless it’s something you’ve truly fantasized about.
Once you do it, it could be like eating potato chips, and you might want more. Don’t do it again right away, because you don’t want your boyfriend to think this is something you could do at any given time. Use the experience as part of your one-on-one time. Talk about it, e-mail each other about, you’ll see how hot the two of you get just recalling it, and you’ll have some pretty amazing sex together just fueled on it.
He will marvel about what a sexual being you are and can feed on the memory of the first encounter for quite awhile. Think about it when you’re on your own and see how turned on you get by it without him egging you on. Go over what you’d like to do next and with what kind of woman. This could be the beginning of your own sexual awakening. You don’t have to question yourself or your own sexuality. If having a soft, curvy, pretty woman in the mix stirs something deep inside you, it’s a great thing, and you’re a very lucky, sexy woman.
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Girlfriends on the PROWL
We women are lucky, we can enjoy a loving friendship with each other, being verbally and physically demonstrative, and society won’t accuse us of being peculiar in the least bit.
Friendships between women are nonsexual romances of sorts. We miss each other, we breathlessly give each other the latest news, and we buy gifts for each other when it’s not even our birthday or Christmas. That’s why we are the superior sex when it comes to love, because we’ve learned just how to love at an early age, while men have to repress their feelings about their buddy and not risk being branded as creepy.
When I am on the phone with my best friend Rachel, my voice gets soft and baby-like at times, so much so I’ve been teased about this by my boyfriend who says one day Rachel will steal me away from him. And I joke often that the only thing holding Rachel and I apart is a nice, thick cock. Of course, for many girlfriends it isn’t as limited as this.
And allow me to share this pearl of wisdom with you: It’s a whole lot easier to nab the hottest man of your choice with a girlfriend than alone.
The Blowjob King
One fortunate man was treated to a fun surprise from two women, one his lover and the other, a long-time platonic female friend. He introduced them while on vacation, and they hit it off really well. In fact, he woke up from a nap one day to discover two giggling ladies naked and surrounding him, both massaging his hard cock and then licking it together, one sucking his shaft while another concentrated on his balls. “It’s unbelievable to have two women giving your cock and balls all that attention,” he says. “It’s amazing, and just that alone was pretty wonderful. I felt like a king.”
Girlfriends Who Aren’t Lovers
It’s happened oh so many times, hasn’t it? You and your girlfriend are bored and out looking for adventure over a few drinks. You see a guy standing alone whom you both are eyeballing, neither of you is looking for a boyfriend or a date, but you’re both thinking “Hmmm, that’s a tasty, hot-looking man for us both!” He notices both of you giggling and looking, and looking away and giggling, and then you both go out of your way to get your second round of drinks at his end of the bar.
I have been there more than once, more than twice, more than three times, where my gal pal has said in jest, “Aaah, let’s share him and make his dreams come true.” Well, why not?
You don’t have to be bisexual or bi-curious to make this happen. And allow me to share this pearl of wisdom with you: It’s a whole lot easier to nab the hottest man of your choice with a girlfriend than alone.
A man’s fantasy to have two women use him for the stud muffin he is doesn’t necessarily have to entail a whole lesbian show. It would be nice of course, but it’s definitely not essential, particularly if he looks to be a virile young man who can take you both, or at least try his hardest (pardon the pun) to.
When you and your friend approach a man, you don’t have to feel the least bit shy or awkward. You don’t have to worry about making a fool out of yourself; this friend is someone whom you goof around with all the time. In fact, you’ll probably find it really easy to approach the opposite sex with her by your side!
Girlfriends Who Are Lovers (or Would Like to Be)
Women often decide to pick up a man together as an excuse to get it on with each other without feeling like hard-core dykes. There, I’ve said it, and it’s true. This is a great way to explore your girlie love leanings in a safe way, one in which you won’t feel like you’re putting yourself, your girlfriend, or your friendship in a compromising position.
Your girlfriend doesn’t have to be your best friend. She can be your party friend or your shopping friend or your bar friend. You’ve probably had a few drinks with her and thought she could do this with you and it wouldn’t be awkward at all. In fact, you probably realized it would be hella hot. And maybe you’ve already kissed each other—so what if it was on a dare and after a few drinks? You still did it, for a long time. So sharing a man could be just the right tool you need to reach out and touch her in the way you both have always wanted to.
But you have to be a little more careful when you’re two hot-in-the-pants women who are looking for their human dildo. Don’t intimidate, don’t let your target in question know you’re ready to pounce so quickly. Men can become intimidated by two strong and sexy females who know what they want and don’t need to waste time screwing around to get it. Also, the guy may think, “No way, this is TOO good to be true. Something is going on, either they’re pros or they’re going to rob me.” Cynical thinking, you may say, but it’s not.
Hopefully the man you and your girlfriend choose won’t be a complete dumb-ass (and if we know anything about sex, we know that morons make terrible lovers). Women are not the only people who fall victim during sexual circumstance, so please ladies, keep this in mind and don’t scare him away with your over-enthusiasm.
Sharing a man could be just the right tool you need to reach out and touch her in the way you both have always wanted to.
Negotiation Conversation Between Two Girlfriends
Girlfriend One: How about him? He’s cute and he’s been looking at us.
Girlfriend Two: No way! He’s an orca, forget it.
Girlfriend One: Well, I don’t like guys whose jeans I can’t fit into.
Girlfriend Two: And I don’t like any guy whose belly is so big I have to move it in order to suck his cock.
Girlfriend One: Okay, good point. But no one who wears sunglasses indoors please.
Girlfriend Two: Of course.
Who to Choose and Where to Go
DANCE CLUBS
So who is this man, where will you find him, and where do you take him from there?
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nbsp; Dance clubs are a great place for you and your girlfriend to find a man because you can just sashay up to a guy who is dancing by himself or in a group and get it going like that. Or you can spot a hot guy standing by himself scanning the dance floor, and you can both go up to him and see if he’d like to join you. It’s also more socially accepted to be physically aggressive on the dance floor. You both can start dancing with the man, letting him see you both, and then one of you can get behind him while the other goes in the front, doing the classic dance sandwich. You can gauge whether he likes the both of you by his grinding and how he distributes his attention on the dance floor. When you’ve had enough of that, both of you should ask him if he wants to join you for a drink. Don’t be surprised if he beats you to the punch.
Dance clubs are also good because you can sample him right there before the two of you decide to take him home. There are plenty of comfy, plush couches for the three of you to get better acquainted, and as I mentioned earlier, some of the trendier clubs have erotic unisex bathrooms that are just begging you to take this guy into a stall and see what he’s made of.
In fact, some clubs are so liberal about sex that you may not have to even bother to take him home at all, but instead just do it at the club. Of course, you also can risk getting thrown out too, but do you really care? Mild recklessness like public sex is part of the whole spirit of adventure and crazy experience.
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