A Kinky Marriage Contract

by Neela Lotte

  Cooking and Entertaining:

  The wife is expected to cook healthy meals at least three times a week, and will be permitted to order in three days a week after consulting with Husband about which type of food sounds best. The wife will keep an organized bank of current takeout menus. One day a week Husband and wife will dine out as a family.

  On occasion, the Husband will invite work acquaintances or family friends to parties or dinners. The wife will be expected to arrange these affairs to reflect well on the family and ensure the enjoyment of the guests. The wife is free to make use of catering services if she so desires.

  Budgeting and Financial Responsibility:

  The wife will pay bills, budget, and manage the household as efficiently as possible. The wife will be expected to account for all expenditures. Any personal expenditures exceeding _____ will need to be approved by Husband even if the money is coming from the wife’s personal spending allowance.

  Furthermore, the wife is expected to spend money as it is earmarked. Money given for clothing or lingerie is not permitted to be spent on lunches with friends, books, or movies. Money budgeted for food or children’s clothing is not to be spent on paying off credit card charges, etc. Responsibility and transparency in the household budget is stringently required.

  Requests for special allowances or budgetary changes will be considered by Husband if asked. Mismanaging the bills, running up the charge card, or overrunning the budget without permission earns a Level 2 or 3 punishment, depending on the seriousness of the offense.

  Nuptial Sexuality

  Sexuality shall be a treasured part of the marriage, and as far as possible, marital intimacy will not be pushed aside due to work pressures, the demands of rearing children, or stress. Well-satisfied marital partners are more likely to feel fulfilled in marriage, and less likely to stray. Nightly sexual activity also helps dispel stress, and maintains the intimacy so important to a strong marital partnership.

  Sexual Service:

  The wife is expected to keep her body in prime condition to give satisfying sexual service to her Husband, nightly if required. This sexual service is a great part of Husband’s enjoyment of life as a fulfilled male. Sexually pleasing her Husband in all ways will be an ongoing and serious endeavor undertaken by the wife. Sexual service to the Husband will include regular oral, vaginal, and anal sex as well as bdsm activities, use of toys, “funishment,” bondage, role play, humiliation and objectification, and any other scenes and activities as desired. The wife will read and study about sexual practices and kink and know her own body well so as to please and excite her Husband to the fullest possible extent. The Husband will endeavor always to bring similar sexual fulfillment to his wife.

  At her Husband’s word or signal, when the children are ascertained to be asleep, the wife will retire to the bedroom and dress in pleasing lingerie to prepare for sexual service, unless directed to present nude. The wife will wait for Husband’s arrival on her knees with her head bowed, unless directed over the bed or in some other position. The wife will wait with her mind solely on her Husband, not her own needs, other worldly concerns or things on her mind. Upon her Husband’s arrival, the wife will wait for directions, or if directions are not forthcoming, will pliantly respond to gestures or prods.

  Oral sex:

  The wife is expected to submit to all forms of pleasuring Husband orally, to include routine fellatio with and without the use of her hands, deep-throating, throat- or face-fucking, oral cock worship, tea bagging, rimming, and swallowing without distaste or reluctance whatever fluids Husband releases in her mouth. The wife will continuously study new techniques and talk with other women about oral proficiency to always improve her ability to service her Husband’s cock.

  Vaginal sex:

  The wife is expected to keep her body fit and limber and employ the use of kegel exercises and/or Ben Wa balls to strength her pubic muscles and vaginal passage in order to maximize Husband’s enjoyment of her pussy. For Husband’s pleasure, the wife is to thoroughly familiarize herself with the Kama3D.org website. She is to memorize Husband’s preferred sexual positions illustrated there by number and name to the point that Husband can demand either number or name and she will position herself as required. Failure to assume the correct position will require a Level 1 punishment and, the following day, after further study, the wife will be asked to perform an exhibition of the female’s part of each position by number and name to prove she has learned them by heart.

  After vaginal sex, the wife is never to jump up to bathe, shower, wipe up, or otherwise rid herself of Husband’s seed. Should any of her Husband’s jism leak from her pussy onto her labia or inner thighs the wife’s choices are to leave it as it is, rub it reverently into her thighs and cunt lips, or collect it on her fingers and lick them clean.

  Anal sex:

  The wife is expected to submit to regular use of her asshole for Husband’s pleasure. As her Husband does not enjoy an overly slippery asshole, lubricant will be used in miniscule quantities, if at all. Therefore, the wife is obliged to learn and employ mental and physical relaxation techniques in order to open her ass for Husband’s cock and minimize his need to cause her pain.

  If the Husband plans to enjoy the wife’s ass very vigorously, he will plug her beforehand for up to an hour to prepare her for rough use. The wife will not be expected to prepare with enemas and douching as Husband will often take wife’s ass as the mood strikes him and without much advance notice. The wife is expected to practice excellent hygiene in this area, however, and eat such healthy, high fiber foods as to ensure her ass is in good, clean, available working order for her Husband’s usage at any time.

  Bdsm, sex games, funishment, and scening:

  A creative and ever-evolving sex life is important to the well-being and satisfaction of both partners, so new and challenging bedroom games, scenes, funishments, and power dynamics shall be experimented with on a regular basis. The Husband is to initiate these new dynamics and the wife is to accept and willingly participate in all initiated activities except those that cross her hard limits. The wife may share suggestions and fantasies after asking Husband’s permission, if she feels they might arouse and interest him, but the final decision to add any new activities to the sexual repertoire will be Husband’s alone.

  Above all, the wife must be open and willing to submit to all sexual requests, and will not pull away, refuse, or communicate distaste for anything Husband chooses to do to his wifely property behind closed and locked doors.

  Female sexual control and orgasm:

  Unless directed otherwise, the wife is free to express in words and sounds her pleasure, fear, excitement, or pain, and in fact is encouraged to do so, unless she is directed to be silent and/or gagged. In the case of Husband taking his wife in hotels, guest homes, etc, the wife may be ordered to silence and in that case, will be expected to do whatever is necessary to muffle her moans, begging, dirty talking, groans of pleasure, and/or screams.

  If directed, the wife will build to orgasm and come enthusiastically and openly to communicate to her Husband her thanks for that gift. If the wife is told to come, but feels she cannot come, she can inform Husband and he will either decide to allow her not to orgasm, or direct her to continue to try. At these times, the Husband will take into consideration the wife’s physical state, energy level, and possible levels of stress. However, if the wife is withholding orgasm or choosing to “turn off” and not to engage with her Husband sexually for selfish or petty reasons, this is a serious Level 3 offense and will be dealt with as such.

  If expressly requested or permitted by Husband, the wife may touch and manipulate herself during sexual encounters; otherwise, the wife is to understand that her body belongs to Husband and its manipulation and pleasure is solely his domain.

  If directed not to come for whatever reason, the wife will still endeavor to pleasure her Husband, and if an orgasm approaches and Husband doesn’t notice, she is obliged to do everythin
g in her power not to come, to include warning her Husband that she might come without permission. Failing to do so and coming without permission is a Level 2 offense.

  The “faking” of orgasms is patently dishonest and strictly forbidden, being an affront and insult to Husband’s ability to pleasure her. Any attempt to fake an orgasm will be immediately apparent to Husband, as he knows exactly how his wife looks, sounds, and moves when she comes. Any such sexual subterfuge will be considered a serious breach of honesty and a Level 3 offense.

  Sexual availability and fidelity:

  Any attempt on wife’s part to withhold sexual favors, deny sexual pleasure to Husband, or otherwise refute her status as the Husband’s sexual property is a serious offense and will be corrected by a rigorous and thoroughly intimate punishment to remind the wife of her sexual status (see Household Discipline.)

  The Husband and wife shall be wholly monogamous to one another in thought, heart, and deed. The Husband may introduce a third female for a limited sexual encounter at his discretion and the wife agrees to submit to this temporary erotic dynamic if asked. No outside males may ever be introduced into the marriage sexually or otherwise.

  Household Discipline

  Considering that the wife is not a masochist, and responds positively to a discipline program based on corporal pain, the Husband will help the wife be her best and meet family goals by rigidly administering a domestic discipline program. The discipline in this program will not be capricious, cause permanent injury or scars, and will never be meted out in anger.

  Punishment sessions:

  For maximum efficacy, punishment sessions will occur after the nightly sexual encounter, if there is an encounter, so that any buffering sexual pleasure has dissipated and cannot take the edge off any punishment meted out. If the Husband chooses not to use the wife sexually the night a punishment is due, she will be forced to masturbate herself to orgasm twice in a row prior to the onset of punishment to be certain any sexual arousal is discharged before the punishment starts.

  In either case, punishment will be applied right before bed so as to maximize the amount of time the wife must dwell on her shortcomings and dread the punishment to come, and also to allow the wife to retreat to bed immediately afterwards to concentrate on her punished flesh and what she will do differently next time.

  There will be three intensity Levels of discipline in the household, described below.

  Level 1 discipline –

  For lesser offenses. Level 1 discipline will begin with the Husband reminding his wife of the offense(s). Husband will then take the wife over his knee, bare her bottom, and give her a moderate spanking with hand, hairbrush, paddle or strap. The wife is not to fidget or fight across her Husband’s lap, and any attempt to protect herself from the blows will result in restraint and a doubling of the strokes. The wife is permitted to cry and beg quietly (even though it will have no actual effect), but excessive or irritating levels of noise will result in being gagged.

  When the Husband feels the wife has been sufficiently disciplined to learn her lesson, he will let her up and she will stand between his knees, look Husband in the eyes, and apologize once again for her shortcomings, express what she will do differently, and thank Husband for punishing her. If the Husband has become sexually aroused during the disbursement of the punishment, he may choose to gesture for wife to drop to her knees and suck or worship his cock in thanks for disciplining her. This will complete the punishment and wife will be put to bed with her reddened bottom bared.

  Level 2 discipline –

  For moderate offenses. Level 2 discipline will begin with Husband reminding wife of the offense(s). The Husband will then stand his wife against the wall or have her lie face down on the bed. The wife will submit to a set number of moderate to severe strokes with three implements of Husband’s choice. Wife will count the strokes, and will not try to elude the blows or protect herself from each stroke. Doing so will result in restraint and a doubling of the strokes. Excessive crying, moaning, and noisemaking will result in being gagged, although a reasonable level of sobbing and begging will be permitted (but ignored.)

  Between punishment with each implement, the wife will stand in the corner for ten minutes with moderate clamps on her nipples and her forehead against the wall. During this corner time the wife is to think about her shortcomings and what she will do differently, and how deserving she is of Husband’s punishment. The wife will not press her pelvis against the wall, daydream, let her mind wander, or descend down into subspace or eroticize the punishment in any way, or the remaining strokes will be doubled.

  After the third corner time, the wife will present herself to her Husband. She will look Husband in the eyes, apologize for her shortcomings, express what she will do differently, and thank Husband for punishing her. If Husband has become sexually aroused during the disbursement of the punishment, he may tell the wife to drop to her knees and suck or worship his cock in thanks for disciplining her. This will complete the punishment and wife will be put to bed with her reddened bottom bared.

  Level 3 discipline –

  For serious offenses. Level 3 discipline will begin with the Husband reminding his wife of the offense(s). Wife will be gagged and have tits and clit clamped with severe clamps. Wife will then assume a position on her knees with her legs spread and her forehead on the floor. Husband will bind wife’s wrists behind her back and plug her ass. In this position, the wife will listen attentively as Husband explains at length the seriousness of the offense(s) and the reason behind the rules that have been broken.

  Husband will severely punish his wife with five implements of his choice, or one implement in five separate sessions, or any combinations of his choice. This level of punishment will call for the most painful and rigorous implements and application. Between each session, the gag will be removed and the wife will apologize for her offense(s) and promise to do better in the future. She may be permitted to cry and beg for mercy, although this will be ignored.

  After five severe sessions, if the Husband wishes, he may remove the plug and any excess lubricant and fuck her ass roughly to further communicate his displeasure at her behavior. After this, the Husband will send the wife to the corner to stand with her forehead against the wall. After ten minutes, she will be ungagged. After ten more minutes the clamps will be removed. After ten more minutes, her wrists will be freed from behind her back.

  If Husband wishes, she may be allowed to suck and worship his cock to communicate her sincere desire to never repeat the offense again. The wife will be put to bed on the floor with her punished ass exposed, plugged and harnessed with uncomfortably large dildos to remind her of her status as an owned and obedient toy. In the morning, the wife will apologize once more and pledge not to repeat the offense(s). If the Husband believes she is contrite and has learned her lesson, she may remove the dildos and the punishment is over. If Husband feels more punishment is necessary to truly curb the wife, the wife may be required to wear one or both of the dildos or have clamps applied under her clothing at various intervals for the rest of the day to signal that more punishment is coming. All or any part of the punishment may be repeated as many nights in a row as Husband believes is required to drive the lesson home.

  Discipline for the refusal of sexual services—

  Punishment for refusal of sexual service is intended to stringently remind the wife of her status as sexual property and her role as her Husband’s toy. Therefore, such punishment will be sexual in nature, and focus on reducing the wife to her most basely sexual use. Punishment will be decided upon by Husband and meted out when the wife is prepared to admit to the inappropriateness of her behavior and accept the consequences for such.

  Consequences may include prolonged wearing of sexually-focused toys such as dildos, plugs, harnesses, gags, rope panties, Ben Wa balls, degrading lingerie, erotic jewelry, or nipple and clit clamps under clothes. Consequences may also include forced and repeated masturbation; repeated stimulatio
n and then denial of orgasms, repeated demand of orgasms, or repeated fucking of all three holes without permission to orgasm in order to remind the wife of her function.

  The wife may be made to dance or perform erotically for Husband at length in any outfit or hardware he desires, or the Husband may demand the sharing and/or enactment of the wife’s shameful, most embarrassing fantasies, or demand that she listen to and act out Husband’s most rigorous and degrading fantasies. The wife will prove through activities such as these that she is sorry for withholding her sex and body from its rightful owner, and that she has learned that she is, ultimately, Husband’s belonging and toy.

  Exceptions

  The points of this contract are in effect with the following important exceptions:

  1) For the wife, the necessity of caring for the children’s well-being will always supersede the Husband’s needs. The Husband will never put his wife in the position of neglecting the children in order that she may cater to his desires.

  2) No third party, to stringently include the household’s children, shall ever be confronted unwillingly by the sexual/kinky manifestations of the Husband and wife’s relationship. All sexual activities, discipline programs, scenes and punishments, and the D/s dynamic of the Husband and wife’s relationship shall be restricted to the most private arena possible, and if practiced in front of third parties or the children, shall take on discreet forms that appear vanilla to the uninitiated.

  The Husband and wife shall display only vanilla expressions of love and affection before their children to best prepare them for the expectations of dating and forming relationships in a largely vanilla world.

  3) The Husband will respect the wife’s hard limits without exception. (For instance, no ‘daddy/daughter’ role play. No anal fisting. No knifes, guns, or potentially life threatening play, to include breath control or asphyxiation.)