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The Nectar of Pain

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by Najwa Zebian


  You are not too much of

  anything.

  Maybe you are too much

  love,

  too much

  care, or

  too much

  innocence.

  But that, there can never be

  too much of.

  In fact, the world is

  suffering

  from people who have

  too little of that.

  He was the best thing that

  never happened to you.

  And you will one day be

  a choking tear

  in his heart

  that he is too proud to

  admit

  was the best thing that could have

  ever

  happened to him.

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  My heart tells me what

  I don’t want to hear.

  That is why I listen to it.

  What we want to hear

  is always safe

  and comfortable.

  It is not always the truth.

  So I’ve learned to listen

  to what makes me uncomfortable

  because I would rather

  listen

  to the truth by my own will

  than be forced to believe it

  after it hurts me.

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  You were not addicted to their

  love.

  You were addicted to their

  pain.

  And when their pain

  left,

  their love for you

  left.

  If their love for you

  depends on what you

  offer them,

  it’s not love.

  It’s abuse.

  You deserve to be loved

  for who you are,

  even when you are

  unable to give.

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  Be kind, because that is

  who you are.

  Do not allow the ignorance of

  others to make you

  like them.

  They are not you.

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  So one person let you go.

  One place let you go.

  One idea let you go.

  One dream gave up on you.

  What about all the other people?

  All the other places?

  All the other ideas and dreams?

  Are they not worth the chances that

  you took

  once

  before?

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  I always imagined that

  falling in love would

  touch my soul before my body.

  I always imagined that it would

  value the beauty

  inside of me before

  the color of my eyes,

  the fairness of my skin,

  or the lipstick I chose to wear.

  I always imagined that love would free me, not

  enslave me.

  Love to me is

  pure. It is

  elevating. It is

  empowering. So if you don’t

  have that kind of love for me, then

  walk away.

  I will not settle for less than what

  my soul is worth.

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  Unrequited Love

  If I love you,

  I will tell you that I love you.

  And if you choose to leave,

  I might beg you to stay

  because

  I love you.

  But I cannot make you stay

  if you choose to walk away.

  Rest assured,

  I will not pretend not to care

  just to deny that you were the one to leave.

  I’d rather love you and not be loved

  in return by you,

  and crumble in my pain over

  the loss of love with you,

  than pretend that my love for you

  was a lie.

  My strength does not come from

  my pride.

  It comes from my vulnerability

  to break my heart open

  when it is broken.

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  I don’t miss

  you.

  I miss

  the person I thought you were.

  I did not love

  you.

  I loved

  the person you pretended to be.

  When I feel lost,

  I doubt every feeling

  I ever felt.

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  If their love one day

  turns out to be

  just words,

  don’t doubt for

  a moment that you

  should walk away.

  And these are not

  just words.

  When I reminded you of

  things you used to say,

  you said:

  “Just words.”

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  Maybe you will live with the regret

  of allowing yourself to allow

  someone to put you down

  and use you.

  But they will one day live

  with the regret

  of putting someone down and

  using them.

  Maybe you will live with the

  pain

  of their words.

  And maybe you will live with the

  pain

  of seeing them move on and go places.

  But they will one day live with

  the regret of using the wrong words

  with you.

  And they will move on to hurt

  the next person.

  The places they will go are nothing

  because they are empty of emotion.

  Their places may be grand, but

  their lives are small,

  so small.

  You are bigger than their pain.

  You are bigger than their words.

  You are bigger than worrying about

  where they are.

  Look at your own path.

  Forgive me for writing so negatively

  about you.

  You have love within you.

  You just haven’t chosen to

  awaken it

  yet.

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  You took me out of your

  sky.

  So I took you out of my

  universe.

  I feel free.

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  Drown me in darkness

  so that I may

  rise lightly

  in light.

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  Love the hatred out of them.

  If you hate them for

  the hatred that they have for

  you,

  how will you teach them

  what love truly is?

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  With tears in my eyes one night,

  I told the stars

  about you.

  They listened to me as if

  they had known you for

  years.

  They told me that I was not

  the first one who had spoken to them

  of your pain.

  They told me to let you go, because

  you had so much more pain to inflict

  upon me, as you had on

  others.

  I listened to them and

  let you go.

  And a wish upon a shooting star sent me

  the person I always wished for.

  Me.

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  It hurts when

  the one who broke your wings is

  the one with the electric wire.

  Every time you

  heal a little and try to

  fly again, they

  break you even harder.

  And every time you

  try to speak, they
<
br />   break your soul again

  even harder.

  Your soul is a bird, love.

  Take a few steps away from

  the pain and

  fly away.

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  To the one who broke me,

  and I hope you read this

  one day:

  Break,

  break,

  break me as much as you want.

  Crack my heart

  as many times as it takes

  for your ego to

  feel as strong as you want it to be.

  That is all you will ever be;

  a soul who chose to break

  instead of heal.

  Time has destined for you

  to have power over me,

  but time will turn around,

  as karma does,

  and I will one day have the power to

  chain you,

  belittle you

  and use you

  as you used me.

  I will have that power

  and instead of using it,

  I will leave you

  and instead of shattering your ego

  some more,

  I will sew it back together.

  You see,

  when my parents raised me,

  they cautioned me of men like you.

  I will not dishonor them

  by wasting my heart on hurting

  a nothing

  like you.

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  I know that you want to

  see them hurt

  the way they hurt you.

  But, believe me,

  you are above that.

  For them to hurt you,

  they must have

  pain

  inside of them.

  They don’t need to be hurt.

  They need to be healed.

  I am not telling you that

  it’s fair for them to get

  away with hurting you.

  Just be the bigger,

  wiser,

  more understanding

  person.

  Don’t let them make you

  like them.

  Wish them healing.

  Wish them love.

  And walk away.

  Even if they chose to walk away

  first.

  They need to find their way.

  You causing them pain

  only makes you worse

  and them worse.

  If you can’t do good for this

  world,

  then stand still.

  But you know that

  you are

  better than that.

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  You told me what you

  did not mean and then

  punished me for

  believing it.

  And when I told you that

  it was unfair, you

  told me that life

  is unfair.

  People like you blame

  anyone but themselves for

  the choices

  that they choose to make.

  If it’s not life,

  it’s a person, and

  if it’s not a person,

  it’s life. But

  never you.

  If you want to occupy a place

  in my heart,

  step one is to

  be honest

  with me.

  Otherwise, turn the other way.

  I only build homes in

  my heart for

  sincere humans.

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  Why are you

  so quiet?

  The ocean within

  you

  is raging.

  Let your words

  flow.

  Let your soul

  scream

  gently,

  kindly,

  softly.

  There is a part of you

  that is so ready for this change.

  You know it.

  Just go ahead.

  Wonder is

  awaiting

  you.

  Take the risk.

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  It is not their true

  colors that you suddenly

  see.

  Their colors were always

  there.

  It is your eyes that

  colored them

  with kindness.

  Yet their silence

  somehow

  convinces you that

  something is wrong with

  you.

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  You will always be

  my saddest goodbye.

  And the most heartbreaking

  story I will ever tell.

  You will always be

  the hardest lesson I had

  to learn

  when I did not want to

  and

  the reason I learned

  to never

  put someone before me.

  You will always be

  the best thing that

  never

  happened to me.

  Thank you for walking away.

  If you had not let go of me,

  I would not have

  what I have

  today.

  I would not be

  who I am

  today.

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  If they already broke you,

  why are you still broken while

  they are already breaking someone

  else?

  Start building your own

  empire.

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  Sometimes,

  a stranger can

  look into your eyes

  once

  and not only see,

  but fully understand

  your sadness.

  No words.

  No conversations.

  You just both know.

  You just both get it.

  And you wonder how it took

  moments for a stranger

  to see what those around you,

  for years,

  did not see.

  Our eyes reflect the scars

  carved into our souls.

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  It is not their love that you need.

  It is your love for yourself that

  you need.

  I will repeat this as many times

  as it takes

  for you

  to

  believe it.

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  I was not ready for you to

  let me go. You

  were not ready for someone to

  hold on to

  you. I

  hated you for giving up on me.

  And you hated me for reminding you that

  you are so scared of love. I

  consider myself the hero for

  taking a risk on you and

  you the coward for

  awakening someone’s heart with

  no intention of continuing the

  journey.

  I salute you.

  Sarcasm has always irritated me, but

  your tone must have

  tainted my ability to

  weigh my words properly.

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  To the man who once said he

  loved me:

  I did not ask you to

  pretend

  to understand me.

  I did not ask you to

  say that you would stay.

  I did not ask you

  to ask

  me

  to love

  you.

  But you did.

  And I thought you understood me.

  I thought you’d stay.

  I thought your love would last.

  But my soul became too heavy on you.

  You walked away.

  You left me wondering

  why y
ou chose someone broken

  like me

  to break even

  more.

  Even if you say you never intended

  it,

  I am still broken.

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  We all know that if it's not meant to be,

  it will not happen.

  If it's meant to be,

  it will.

  We all know that everything

  happens for a reason.

  And one day, we will know that reason.

  What we need is strength

  in the moment

  to think that way.

  It should not be easy

  to not get what you want to get.

  It should not be easy

  to not be loved back.

  It should not be easy

  to work hard and not reach your destination.

  It's okay to feel pain.

  It takes time to accept realities

  that we don't want to accept.

  And just because reality is painful,

  it does not mean that you are not

  worthy of good things coming your way.

  It means that you

  must change the direction

  that you are looking in.

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  I always wished that you

  gave me a chance to show you

  what life with me

  would be like.

  Now that I see what life

  without you is like,

  I understand why fate

  never answered my wish.

  You see, fate took care of me, and

  you helped it by

  causing the pain that you

 

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